| From Oneness The Gift of Healing the wounding of the Divine Feminine and the Divine Masculine |
From Oneness The Gift of Healing the wounding of the Divine Feminine and the Divine MasculineFrom the purity of Love of Oneness the archetypical wounds of the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine are healing. From separation and disconnection and ego the masculine and feminine wounding feels like it is deepening. From fear, when the masculine is rejected by the feminine and not honored by her, feels wounded even more deeply. In an effort to protect what is left of the masculine, the masculine ego strengthens and has become a dominant way of being within the masculine psyche. From ego the masculine energy subjugates the feminine, in an effort to re establish his strength and power, by sexual and physical and emotional domination. Her wounds of violation deepen, and close her off further, her ego closes her off further. The feminine is sensitive and very perceptive and sees through the veil of ego and closes off more to protect herself from further violation and domination. When the masculine subjugates the feminine, his strength and power is limited and destructive and the feminine is closed. Then both of these hold the cycle in place. Thus the Matrix is held in place and strengthened on a daily basis. Held together by reactive ego's each unconsciously trying to protect itself from further wounding; not realizing that its protection mechanism is in itself what holds the destructive dysfunctional matrix in place. The escape from this madness is not found in an egoic response of blaming or making the other wrong. It is just a place to start. The way out is awareness and raising consciousness. It matters not where the awareness starts to awaken, it is where it is. The noticing of the matrix is the way out of the matrix, Noticing it is Presence, which is in itself the dissolving of the ego which held it together in the first place. Presence and ego cannot coexist at the same time. Presence creates a stillness, a space of honoring self and others. From Presence both the Divine Masculine and Divine Feminine aspects are honored and it is in and through honor and respect that the Divine Masculine creates a space where the Divine Feminine is safe (no longer feels vulnerable) to express and blossom and flower, and her blossoming is the nectar that nourishes and accepts the Divine Masculine and allows him to unleash his strength and power which are of a wholesome complete essence (he no longer feels rejected), his expression of these is creative (rather than destructive). Sexuality is then transformed and its true sacred nature revealed. One end of the sexuality spectrum is the ego based sexuality, domination and destructive abuse of sexuality where both wounds are deepened further and further. This has become a global issue being played out repeatedly continually dishonoring both the masculine and the feminine. Whenever our ego is active we are not present, this is the state where strength is destructive rather than creative. The other end of the sexuality spectrum is Sacred Sexuality where we are now heading, it is grounded in Presence, in mutual honor and respect and it is healing those same deep wounds. The sacredness of true sexuality is infinitely more powerful than the illusion of its degraded form. The sacred blossoms through the deep trust and love that is expressed in true intimacy, a space of honor and respect where bliss beyond what the limited ego could imagine flourishes. This is accessed with in and then can be shared with another. The new sexuality is one of honor and respect and presence, Oneness is the space that allows the healing. From Oneness Divine Masculine supporting and protecting Divine Feminine allows her to feel honored and to open and blossom and grow and receive him which is the nectar his soul has longed for, acceptance allows him to unleash. This then expands depth of connection to Oneness for both, expansion deepens the experience for both, Divine Feminine trusting Divine Masculine even more deeply allows Divine Masculine to protect more deeply, and Divine Feminine flower bud opens even more and blossoms, expanding the nectar the masculine receive. © Carol Goddard 2010 ABOUT THE AUTHOR Carol Goddard is an Australian author and presenter, a reminder of who we are. Carol's offering is her Open Heart and the Deepening Remembrance of her own Essence, Carol offers programs both locally and globally. Please visit www.CarolGoddard.net NOTE: You're welcome to "reprint" this article online as long as it remains complete and unaltered (including the "about the author" info at the end). |